you cant change people
get to know someone through all the seasons before making any major decisions
dont stay with someone who doesnt care
put each other first
accept the differences, embrace what you have in common
don't belittle your partner
let not the sun go down upon your wrath
be the last to quarrel and the first to make up
never stop trying to be attractive
dont dump responsibility on your partner
listen to what they are NOT saying
most everyday arguments are about something else
you don't both have to have the same rules
give them space for themselves
keep the moral high ground
treat them the way you think is right, no matter how they treat you
find friends who love the truth
never lend money unless you're prepared to write it off
when one finger points forwards, 3 point back
know when to let go
bitterness helps no one
